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| Have It All Versus Do It All | ||
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"Most people are prisoners, thinking only about the future or
living in the past. They are not in the present, and the present is where
everything begins.” On
a recent Sunday night in
Set
after set, as Carlos played, sometimes in the foreground and sometimes in the
background the music amplified the power of a decades old band. From
The next day, as I returned home and to the ebb and flow of our life I paused to ask the question: can great leaders have it all without doing it all? Can a truly powerful leader allow others to have the spotlight while he or she is content to look on in admiration as their protégé performs at a level equal or better to their own? Do the best leaders on the planet create a space for people to truly shine as opposed to creating an autocratic environment that shines the spotlight only upward instead of outward? I believe the answer is absolutely yes. When it comes to the concept of leadership success, author Robin Sharma comes to mind. In his most recent book, The Leader Who Had No Title, Mr. Sharma uses a parable to illustrate leadership principles which include being the best in the world no matter what job you do, exploring your humanness, treating others with respect and recognizing the strengths of others while only humbly acknowledging one’s own. The concept of the book is that some of the most powerful people in the world are those who choose to lead, regardless of title, and utilize the strengths of others to bring everyone along. In the book, Good to Great by Jim Collins, we see the leadership paradigm of the CEO’s of some of the most successful companies in the world. Mr. Collins found that corporate executives who lead with humility, were able to openly give praise and truly receive the contribution of their team were not some of the highest paid leaders; they also had the greatest efficacy and longevity. It would seem that leadership efficacy and having it all is really dependent on not being the person who is doing it all. The question is, where are you willing to shine the light on others? Are you able to only focus on what people do right as opposed to what they are doing wrong? Can you look outward when things are going right and inward when things are going wrong? Are you able to lead by not only blazing a trail but by being a great cheerleader? Leadership is one of the greatest pieces of success. Those who fail to step into leadership roles, whether they work in a fast food restaurant or professional sales, often do not move forward. People who try to lead with ego or by dictatorship often tumble as a leader is only as good as the love of their followers. To lead is to truly take responsibility in good times and bad. It is to be able to step back from center stage as your team shines in front of you.
To
truly lead and have it all means being a little more like Carlos Santana;
people can perceive your power however you do not have to prove it to
them. In the book of Proverbs it says
that ‘wisdom shall be known by her children.’
As we all grow as leaders think about and meditate on the legacy you are
creating and what it says about you as a human being. Allow yourself to shine your bright light on
others even if it means taking the spotlight away from yourself. There is tremendous opportunity for you to
become incredibly successful in all areas of your life. I encourage you to go for it like never
before because you are magnificent. Susan Sly is a highly acclaimed author, speaker and trainer. You can see Susan live in NY or by attending the life transforming Have It All Women’s Weekend. Click here for more information |
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